Anyone who is driven and wants to accomplish something in
their life has goals. The more focused and detailed the
goals, the more likely they will be achieved. Our goals
are like our destination in a trip, and the detailed game
plan is like the road map. With a known destination and a
known game plan, then why do some of us get derailed along
the way? What is it that stands between us and our goals?
We do everything the books say about writing down our
goals, but sometimes, we just don't make them. There are
other factors at play when it comes to reaching our goals.
Here is one that isn't commonly mentioned, yet determines
how successful we are in reaching our goals.

Our Highest Priority Doesn't Match Up With Our Goals

We are always creating our reality or our experiences from
our highest priority whether we are conscious of our
highest priority or not. If we consciously want something
and it is the same as, or very close to our highest
priority, we will always achieve it and very quickly.
However if our highest priority is completely the opposite
of what our conscious goal is, we will never create what
it is that we want because 90% of our creative ability is
going against our conscious desires.

This is why vision boards don't work for some people.
Their highest priority goes against what they consciously
want. Even though they create a focus of what they want
with 10% of their creative power (the conscious mind), the
other 90% is in the process of creating something
completely different.

How Our Highest Priority Works In Our Lives

Our highest priority expresses itself in our lives in both
subtle and obvious ways. Suppose someone wants to create a
better relationship in their life with their significant
other. They may want to reduce the amount of fighting that
goes on in the relationship. To improve their
relationship, they may read books about what they can do to
reduce the fighting, and it may begin to work at first.
However, if their subconscious highest priority is to
create drama in their life, whether they are conscious of
it or not, then either the reduction in fighting won't
last, or there will be some other place in their
relationship where turmoil is created. This usually ends
up in frustration for that individual, because they are
doing all of the things they feel they should be doing, but
they are not getting the results they want.

What Can We Do About Reaching Our Goals?

The first step in understanding and aligning our highest
priority to our conscious desires is to become aware of
what is our highest priority. The simplest way to do this
is to first observe unconditionally what we are currently
experiencing. Whatever situation we are currently
experiencing is what we have created for some purpose. The
importance of looking at it unconditionally is to allow
ourselves to see the experience completely without pushing
anything under the carpet. Anytime we push anything under
the carpet, we set ourselves up to have the same type of
experience again.

Unconditionally looking at our experience means looking at
our experience without judgment, blame, shame or guilt. It
is just looking at the experience with an innocent eye. No
right or wrong, it is what it is. The power of this
approach is that you can allow yourself to look at every
aspect, and not beat yourself up for anything. It doesn't
mean not being responsible for your role in the experience
however. If this situation has caused upset or harm to
someone else, you still stand in the responsibility of what
you have done to affect them, but you don't judge yourself
as bad or good. Judgments cause lack and loss for all
parties involved. From this understanding, you will begin
to see patterns in your behaviors and experiences and you
will begin to see what your highest priority is. Your
awareness is your key to consciously changing your
experience.

The concept of our highest priority and how it works in our
lives is a powerful one. This article gives us a brief
overview of how it affects us in reaching our goals. There
are other steps that need to be taken to re-align our
highest priority to match our goals, however the this
article gives us a powerful first step. More information
can be found in the very few personal development materials
that give you the HOW to achieve what it is you want in
your life.

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